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  • What keeps you up at night? – Dreamers // Doers
    terrified of my job For no real good reason I work hard every single day to push out excellent code and make myself someone people can rely on I often work 7 days a week and sometimes don t even sleep at night because I m working I know I m doing a good job I make sure to have 1 on 1s with various managers in the company regularly to ask about how I m doing and what I can do to improve and they never tell me anything I don t know if it s the lack of feedback or impostor syndrome or what but I constantly feel like I haven t done enough I keep thinking that I should leave the company so that I can have for lack of a better term a life but I know that I ll just end up working this much wherever I end up I have anxiety and panic attacks sometimes on my way into the office I work I go home and I go to bed I moved to NYC without knowing anyone but a handful of coworkers so it s not like I have friends or family to keep me distracted That all being said I m getting better I don t bring my laptop home anymore so that I can force myself to have a break I ve been hopping around trying to find a church I can connect with I ve gone on a few dates Though work has been keeping me up at night and is always in the back of my mind I m trying to get better at not being stressed out about it It s so hard though I miss my parents and my sister and my family All I can really do is pray that it ll be better drink some calming tea and hope that it actually gets to be the happy place I thought it would be I just want to have someone hug me and say that it ll be alright And now that I m more aware that I m doing this to myself the question is there am I working to distract myself from loneliness Or is my loneliness distracting me from my work 3 My Worst Enemy I m a founder I left finance 2 years ago I d consider myself very put together But sometimes this entrepreneurial journey wears on me so much to a point I even feel like a fraud for calling myself a founder I feel like I am working so hard to constantly sell the vision to myself to others On one day everyone including myself is SO bought into it I think I am killing it And then the next day without even a warning the façade just explodes and the world comes crumbling down On those days nothing will resonate Even if I get the most amazing feedback from customers it just rolls off me and I seem

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  • interview – Dreamers // Doers
    that instant when you get off the phone with someone important and realize you d said something wrong You missed opportunities to come across the way you d TAKING THE PATH LESS TRAVELED REFRESHINGLY HONEST CONTENT Subscribe Follow Get more content like this in your inbox You ll be the first to get thoughtful content and updates FACEBOOK LOVE LIKE FACEBOOK LOVE LIKE TWITTER ACTION My Tweets 2015 All Rights

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  • men vs women – Dreamers // Doers
    know that instant when you get off the phone with someone important and realize you d said something wrong You missed opportunities to come across the way you d TAKING THE PATH LESS TRAVELED REFRESHINGLY HONEST CONTENT Subscribe Follow Get more content like this in your inbox You ll be the first to get thoughtful content and updates FACEBOOK LOVE LIKE FACEBOOK LOVE LIKE TWITTER ACTION My Tweets 2015 All

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  • Dreamers // Doers - Taking the path less traveled, together. - Page 5
    Advice Great Reads Inspiration Reality Uncategorized October Doers Digest October 14 2015 Read More Advice Great Reads Inspiration Life Optimum You September Doers Digest September 16 2015 Read More June Doers Digest June 16 2015 Read More It s about making dreams happen April 1 2015 Read More Optimum You Should business decisions be gut decisions I noticed my work suffers the moment I make other people s potential opinions a focus point instead of just listening to my gut This can apply to my writing strategic work decisions pretty much It s about making dreams happen Dearest Doer This bi monthly email is designed to keep you current with buzz resources and inspiration to support you in making big dreams happen The onus is on you to make your idea compelling Emily Weiss how Emily raised Optimum You Is the fear of public writing holding you back Have you always had an urge to write I certainly have But I don t have an active blog Instead my Evernote is littered with sad half finished blog posts that have consumed countless hours of Newer Posts TAKING THE PATH LESS TRAVELED REFRESHINGLY HONEST CONTENT Subscribe Follow Get more content like

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  • Should business decisions…be gut decisions? – Dreamers // Doers
    your life And push away the ones that aren t additive Sometimes subtly Sometimes very outrightly 3 You do your best work by pouring yourself into it It s hard to excel at the act of trying to be someone else Also it s difficult to outperform if you lack pleasure in your work 4 Trying to please others is impossible You ll always displease someone People are mind blowingly different Even within a narrow audience there are infinite variations And if you do succeed you still lose You ll have succeeded in creating work that resonates with others But not with you 5 Trying to please others weighs on confidence Inherently by being a pleaser you worry You are driven by fear This silences your gut leaving you without a compass This not only negatively impacts your work It will affect every part of your life Own your gut All decisions come with a unique set of consequences Even the decision to be ourselves It s not about eliminating limitations but about picking our poison Only by doing so consciously do we get to actually enjoy it Too often even if we do end up with the best decision for us we don t own it We keep wondering if it really was the best decision constantly second guessing not allowing it to ever feel right But we must have trust in our decisions feel like we are exactly where we want to be Only then can we have the fuel to be the best version of ourselves It s our decision to deprive ourselves from this Or to own that damn gut What will you decide today Share your thoughts Comments Post Views 125 Visited 20 times 1 visits today 0 Share Dreamers Doers Dreamers Doers is a

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